Only bad thing ’bout a star is they burn up. – J.Cole
When a celebrity passes away, many of us feel a sense of sadness that seems strange because WHY would we cry for someone who doesn’t even know us, nor we’ve only ever crossed paths once? So, penny for your thoughts, is it okay to grieve for stars?
It’s All About Connection
Celebrities often seem larger than life; they’re the type of people who we look up to, we listen to, and strive to be near with. They share their talents, stories, and even their struggles with us through movies, music, or social media. Over time, we develop a significant kind of connection to them as we laugh at their jokes, cry during their performances, and celebrate their achievements. So, in short answer, yes, THIS ONE-SIDED feeling of bonding is totally fine; but be careful, because even though they’re far from us day-to-day, the type of grief we feel may still have the same heavy gravity as losing someone we dearly love. This is when fandoms come in, as the act of grieving becomes a shared experience.
For many fans, expressing grief can be a way to find closure. Writing a tribute, sharing memories, or participating in fan gatherings can help honor the celebrity’s legacy. These actions allow us to channel our emotions into something meaningful.
Fans Gathered Around Liam Payne’s Last Place
In Buenos Aires, directioners and fans of Liam Payne gathered around the hotel where the star fell. They paid tributes, lit candles, said their prayers, and above all, sang the iconic One Direction song, “Night Changes,” which is one of the saddest hits of the former boy band before they went on hiatus. Many cried and hugged their friends as they reminisced on nostalgic times when the boy band was still on top of their game. Furthermore, many were devastated especially by the possibility that they’ll finally get the reunion they’d wanted, but at the funeral of Liam.
Around the world, directioners are giving their condolences and sharing their stories about how 1D changed their lives, and how everyone was shocked about the news that came early in the evening of the 16th.
In the end, grieving for celebrities is a normal part of being human. They touch our lives in ways we may not fully understand, and it’s okay to feel sadness when they’re gone. So the next time you find yourself shedding a tear for a star, remember: you’re not alone, and it’s perfectly fine to grieve for those who’ve inspired you, even from afar.
Rest in peace, to all the stars that burned.
