Are you tired of mixed signals?
Reading someone’s behavior isn’t always easy but knowing the signs of disinterest can help you understand your relationship even better. It also makes you think about your feelings and also think about the choices you’ll make in the future.
He’s there and you are falling head over heels for him. However, you are unsure with his feelings, he gives off a lot of mixed signals but sometimes he makes you believe that you are the only important thing in his life and at other times, he is treating you as if it is a casual friendship. So what is the exact scenario? Well then, let’s check out the telltale signs on whether he is into you or not.
He Never Initiates Contact
When a guy is interested in a woman, he always makes an effort to reach out. You’ll receive random messages or calls from him because he misses you and wants you to know that. He enjoys chatting with you and hearing about your day. If he doesn’t initiate any contact but only replies when you reach out, it’s a clear sign that he’s not into you at all.
He Takes a Long Time to Respond to Your Messages
You text him because you miss him, but he takes ages to reply. He might say he was caught up with something, but this pattern continues. His excuses often seem flimsy. Is this happening to you? If so, it’s time to move on. Don’t waste your time on someone who makes excuses not to communicate. A guy who is genuinely interested will enjoy your conversations and respond promptly.
He Doesn’t Pay Attention When You Speak
Does he keep staring at his screen and seem distracted? That’s rude. A man who truly values you will listen and give you his full attention when you talk. If you feel like his mind is elsewhere while you’re together, he’s likely not into you.
He Is Interested in Other Women
If you see him pursuing or flirting with other women, it’s a major red flag. Don’t stress your friends with your attraction to red flags. A real man shows commitment and makes you feel valued and happy; he would never hurt you by paying attention to someone else. If he’s interested in other women, it’s time to say goodbye.
He Cancels Plans with You
It’s a significant red flag when a guy doesn’t value spending time with you. A man who is into you will prioritize you over others. He’ll make an effort to hang out, and while emergencies may arise, they should be rare because he will do everything possible to see you. If a guy cancels plans and shows little enthusiasm about making new ones, he’s simply not into you.
So, paminaw nimo, love jud kaha ka niya?
