Why Winning Bronze Feels Better Than Silver?

As the Paris Olympics end, talks about the winners continue circulating, including their feelings and emotions after receiving an award.

One of the striking observations that arose was the contrast in the emotional reactions of bronze and silver medal winners. While bronze medalists often show a sense of joy and satisfaction, silver medalists can sometimes appear disappointed. This phenomenon is not unique to the Olympics but is a common occurrence in any competition where there are 1st, 2nd, and 3rd place winners. The question that naturally arises is, why?

Why Does Being 3rd Feel A Whole Lot Better Than Being 2nd?

According to netizens, “Being 3rd means that one’s efforts made him win the competition, but placing 2nd means that that person is the first loser.” Although a tad bit negative to the silver or 2nd place winners, this statement has some truths laced in it.

It’s a common scenario for silver medalists, who often find themselves just a point or less away from the gold. In such cases, it’s easy to fall into the ‘if only trap,” thinking about what could have been. This can sometimes overshadow the achievement, whereas bronze medalists are more likely to embrace the satisfaction of their win.

How to Overcome Negative Thoughts When You’re the 2nd Placer

Competing is already a play on one’s physical and mental capacities, especially when you’re among the top competitors. However, when dealing with the tough “if onlys,” it’s best to incorporate and remind yourself about the spirit of sportsmanship. Offer goodwill to your fellow competitors and yourself, especially since you are your most challenging competitor. Celebrate the fact that you won in a highly competitive environment and embrace or bask in the glory of your win.

Lastly, always remember that you can do better, maybe not in the current set of competitions, but in the future. Just compete with yourself and you’ll find that regardless of your placement or award, you’ll be generally happier and satisfied as compared to comparing yourself with others.